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Privilege Meme

  • Jan. 3rd, 2008 at 12:08 PM
toomuchplor: (vm is smarter)
The list is based on an exercise developed by Will Barratt, Meagan Cahill, Angie Carlen, Minnette Huck, Drew Lurker, Stacy Ploskonka at Illinois State University. The exercise developers ask that if you participate in this blog game, you acknowledge their copyright.

To participate, copy and paste the list (below) into your blog, and bold the items that are true for you. Comments in italics.

Father went to college
Father finished college
Mother went to college
Mother finished college
Have any relative who is an attorney, physician, or professor
Were the same or higher class than your high school teachers

Lo, we are a clan of eggheads. My mother is the only one in my immediate family with only one degree and no graduate work. Poor Mom.

Had more than 50 books in your childhood home
Had more than 500 books in your childhood home
Were read children's books by a parent
Had lessons of any kind before you turned 18
Had more than two kinds of lessons before you turned 18


The people in the media who dress and talk like me are portrayed positively. - I don't even know what this means. Maybe?
Had a credit card with your name on it before you turned 18 - Ahahaha... yeah, right!
Your parents (or a trust) paid for the majority of your college costs
Your parents (or a trust) paid for all of your college costs My scholarships and summer jobs paid for the majority of my university, with my parents helping a bit with rent and moving expenses.
Went to a private high school
Went to summer camp
Had a private tutor before you turned 18
Family vacations involved staying at hotels - motels, usually, and usually as we were going enroute from one relative's home to another. Canada is big, yo.

Your clothing was bought new before you turned 18. I did get the occasional hand-me-down from neighbours and friends, but I was the only girl so I got spared most of them.
Your parents bought you a car that was not a hand-me-down from them - Ahahaha!
There was original art in your house when you were a child - mostly that my mom did (she's an artist) so -- sort of?
Had a phone in your room before you turned 18.
yes, and I paid the bill and connection fee myself. I started Uni when I was 17, after all, and it was in the days before cell phones.
You and your family lived in a single family house
Your parent(s) owned their own house or apartment before you left home

You had your own room as a child
Participated in an SAT/ACT prep course -- Canadian here! No such thing... but I didn't have anything analogous. My parents pretty much thought we were all smart enough to study for ourselves. See above, re: eggheads.
Had your own TV in your room in High School Ha! I had a TV in my room in GRADE SIX. Of course, it was a 4" B&W number from Woolco (the former WalMart in Canada) and it cost a whopping $60 and was my biggest gift of the year, but yes. TV. Any subsequent TVs were bought by myself with money I had earned myself.
Owned a mutual fund or IRA in High School or College

Flew anywhere on a commercial airline before you turned 16
Went on a cruise with your family - after I was an adult already, as part of my parents' 30th wedding anniversary.
Went on more than one cruise with your family
Your parents took you to museums and/or art galleries as you grew up - I guess. Mostly the schools did. But we went to the science centre once or twice, so I guess that counts.
You were unaware of how much heating bills were for your family. We weren't wealthy and I know now that our heating bills weren't easy to pay, but my mother grew up in a family that was always strapped for cash (5 kids and a 6th in permanent group home care) and hated money talk around kids as a result. The rule was that they didn't discuss money around children. I think the first time I heard my parents mention a bill in my presence, I was at least 13, and I was the baby of the family.

Hrm. I think this sets me exactly where I always have been -- middle class. Middle middle class as a child, moving maybe towards middle upper as my dad hit the peak of his career and my older siblings moved on? Of course, now I am a lowly starving artist and I'm lower middle all by myself. Yay!

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[identity profile] allyndra.livejournal.com wrote:
Jan. 3rd, 2008 08:02 pm (UTC)
What an interesting meme. I try to be conscious of how priveleged I really am, but some of these factors (like books in the home) are ones I never considered.
[identity profile] toomuchplor.livejournal.com wrote:
Jan. 4th, 2008 12:14 am (UTC)
Yeah, the books thing -- I guess it's a sign of my privilege that I never really considered books to be a luxury. We had many, and we also visited the public library every two weeks at least. My family are avid bookworms -- used to spend all of Christmas Day each curled up with our new books, in our separate little worlds and completely content that way.
[identity profile] allyndra.livejournal.com wrote:
Jan. 4th, 2008 02:31 am (UTC)
As a child, we didn't own a ton of books, because they cost money. But we went to the library all the time, and my sister and I often spent our allowance on books.

I remember taking a class with a woman who was an elementary school principal, and she talked about having to teach kindergarteners how to hold a book, because some of them had never had one before. I was shocked speechless.
[identity profile] talesofmicetea.livejournal.com wrote:
Jan. 3rd, 2008 09:00 pm (UTC)
I'm a poverty striken starving artist so don't feel so bad:/ Have a website of your work? Mines www.whimsicolordesigns.com

micetea
[identity profile] toomuchplor.livejournal.com wrote:
Jan. 4th, 2008 12:13 am (UTC)
Oh, I'm not that kind of artist! I'm a professional musician -- a conductor -- so more the small-a kind of artist.

Thanks for the link to your site, though! Cool stuff!
[identity profile] mercurydraconix.livejournal.com wrote:
Jan. 4th, 2008 11:06 am (UTC)
Somebody above mentioned not realizing as a child that books were a luxury - I guess I sort of knew, because all my books came from the library, but at the same time, we definitely had big bookshelves that were crammed full. My parents just weren't willing to shell out the cash to buy new, expensive kids books because I always ripped through them in like... 40 minutes.

It's funny though, because I've always considered that - other than taking up space and needing to be toted around, both of which can be tricky if your living conditions are small or change frequently - books were a standard part of living. Maybe you didn't buy them new, but then I often chose to buy both books and clothing used because I didn't want to spend the cash, even when I knew I could.

I mention this because I've recently moved to New Zealand, and books here are $25 (NZ, of course, but still) for a mass market paperback, often $13 even for a used book. Coming from the states, where I could expect to find a used book for about $3, it's been a complete shock. Clearly, books here are a luxury. And it's something I find really horrible.

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