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Comments (the obligatory post)

  • Apr. 20th, 2009 at 1:52 PM
toomuchplor: (chloe reads porn)
It seems there is some discussion about commenting by readers and such going on, and without dipping my toes into the general fray, I thought it was an opportune moment for me to state my own policy when it comes to comments. (This is in no way meant as a judgment on the current hoopla, it's just on my mind at the moment. These are MY policies and I don't extend them to anyone else):

1) Don't feel like you need to comment on anything I write. I love love love getting comments of course, but I am a lame commenter at best with other people's work so I apply the golden rule here. And I always think of published authors out there, of all the books I've read and adored in my life, and the fact that I've never once in my life written a letter of thanks or praise to any published author. And then I feel damn lucky that some of y'all talk to me when you like my shit.

2) I am crap at answering comments. I used to be zealous about this but I totally burned myself out trying to answer comments on some longer WIPs (we'll save that discussion for another post) and at the time I posted a "flail" entry saying "Will you all forgive me if I suck and don't answer each of you every time?" and the prevailing sentiment was "Yes of course" so I gave up on answering each and every comment. That being said, the other thing that makes me crap at this is that I so often disappear from LJ for months at a time and I feel incredibly stupid answering people's comments literally YEARS after they're made. So I have long lists of comments I will never ever answer.

3) But I'm trying to do better! I'm getting back into the habit of answering comments and I will do my bestest to keep up from here on out. But in case I fall into the land of crappy comment-answering again, here's my general word of thanks: I literally would not write so much or so cheerfully if it weren't for the wonderful words of many of you, encouraging me to continue. So thank you muchly.

Comments

digitalwave: (Wonder Woman)
[personal profile] digitalwave wrote:
Apr. 20th, 2009 07:58 pm (UTC)
God, sweetie, I know! I try my best to answer, too, but sometimes life just gets in the way of our best intentions.

*hugs*
[identity profile] toomuchplor.livejournal.com wrote:
Apr. 20th, 2009 08:06 pm (UTC)
Word. And I have to say, I think artists are WAY more long-suffering than writers. You must spend just as long (if not longer) on something that many people take in in the space of a few eyeblinks, as writers do on stories that take people an hour to read, and it's unfortunate but true that people comment more, the longer it takes them to "absorb" something.
digitalwave: (Default)
[personal profile] digitalwave wrote:
Apr. 21st, 2009 04:08 pm (UTC)
I'm just always happy to have the feedback, sweetie, however much it is. Though, it is somewhat discouraging when something I've spent a lot of time on only gets a few comments. But, there's never any rhyme or reason as to what pieces are popular or not. I always try not to worry about it and just do the pieces that speak to me.

The other option is just too crazy making. :)
[identity profile] incidental-fire.livejournal.com wrote:
Apr. 20th, 2009 11:51 pm (UTC)
For whatever it's worth, I've gotten replies ~6-18 months after leaving comments, and I actually think it's kind of fun because then I'm inspired to go and re-read the story. I totally get feeling odd about it, just like I feel odd commenting on a story that was posted years ago, but thought I'd add my two cents. ::drops the pennies in a handily nearby well::
[identity profile] toomuchplor.livejournal.com wrote:
Apr. 21st, 2009 03:41 am (UTC)
For whatever it's worth, I've gotten replies ~6-18 months after leaving comments, and I actually think it's kind of fun because then I'm inspired to go and re-read the story.

Ah, so if I did that, it wouldn't be blatant laziness, it'd be MARKETING STRATEGY. Genius!

Hee. Seriously, though, every time I think, "Oh, I'll just finish this up!" I go and look at 7 pages of comments on my most widely-recced SGA fic and I'm all, "oh HELLS NO."

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